TESTIMONIES
My name is Monica Ling Khaw Lam. I am 19 years old and the third daughter among seven siblings. My hometown is Khone Eain Village, located in Min Tat Township, Southern Chin State. I am currently living in Hlaing Township, Yangon, and studying at Campion Institute.
From Grade 6 to Grade 10, I lived at Myittar Mon Orphanage in Myaung Takar Village. When my father passed away, my mother struggled to raise us alone, and that’s why she decided to send me to the orphanage. From Grade 8 to Grade 10, I received full support from the Mary K. Yap Foundation. I want to sincerely thank the Foundation for covering all the costs of my food, living expenses, and education during that time.
Living at Myittar Mon Orphanage taught me a great deal. I arrived when I was 10 years old, and I grew up learning not just academics, but also about health, mental well-being, spiritual development, and religious values. Life lessons truly began at the orphanage, and the Sisters cared for us with deep love and compassion. Our daily lives were centered around education, and I’m very grateful for that.I cannot imagine what my life would be like if I hadn’t stayed there. I was happy growing up under its structure, rules, and discipline.
From what I understand, the Mary K. Yap Foundation is dedicated to supporting underserved children and orphans, especially in the area of education, with great love and care. The Foundation started supporting Myittar Mon Orphanage about a year after I arrived. I still remember the Sisters telling us that the Foundation would help children who were outstanding, well-behaved, intelligent, and eager to learn. Hearing the words “They will support the children” was incredibly uplifting—it was something I had never heard before in my life.
My life changed dramatically while I lived at the orphanage. They shaped me into a strong, capable person. I learned how to face challenges, to love and understand others, and to deepen my religious faith. I also learned to tell right from wrong and make good decisions.No matter where life takes me, the memories of the orphanage are always with me. That orphanage became my second home. The love and generosity of our supporters and donors have given us countless cherished memories, especially during Christmas time, which I remember fondly with the other children I grew up with.
Although I’m not a professional yet, I’m doing my best every day to reach that goal. I’ve always dreamed of becoming a professional, and I believe I will achieve that goal. My mom, relatives, and friends continue to encourage me. If given the opportunity, I would love to work alongside those who once supported me. I want to give back—to help underserved communities and engage in meaningful charitable work.
I’m still in touch with the Sisters and my friends from the orphanage. When I return to my village, the lack of a mobile network makes it hard to stay connected, but I always keep them in my heart. I am proud to have grown up in an orphanage. Some people see it as something negative or shameful. They look down on orphanages. But for me, it’s something I am grateful for. That experience shaped me into a disciplined and resilient person. When I look around today, I see many adults who lack the discipline I learned at Myittar Mon.
To the children still living in orphanages today: please take every opportunity to learn what you’re meant to. Don’t compare yourself to others. It’s better to stand firm on your path. Thank you all. I am delighted to have the opportunity to share this testimony.
Many thanks to the Mary K. Yap Foundation—may you continue to achieve even greater success.
Love,
Monica Ling Khaw Lam.”
Direct Translation by MF Staff Member Shelly
